Spotting signs of abuse

There are not always obvious signs that a child is being abused and a child might not feel able to tell anyone what's happening to them.  Sometimes, children don't even realise that what's happening to them is abuse.

There are different types of child abuse and the signs that a child is being abused may depend on the type.  For example, the signs that a child is being neglected may be different from the signs that a child is being abused sexually.

Some common signs that there may be something concerning happening in a child’s life include:

• Unexplained changes in behaviour or personality
• Becoming withdrawn or secretive
• Seeming anxious or jumpy
• Becoming uncharacteristically aggressive
• Lacks social skills and has few friends, if any
• Has a poor bond or relationship with a parent
• Knowledge of adult issues inappropriate for their age
• Running away or going missing
• Always choosing to wear clothes which cover their body.
• Coming home with unexpected money or gifts

These signs don’t necessarily mean that a child is being abused, there could be other things happening in their life which are affecting their behaviour.